Sunday, October 03, 2010

imagine that!

Imagine that, she is actually correct! Met up with her earlier this year over lunch and chatted about her marriage and my lack of one. She reassured me that I'm going to find someone who's like me, someone who works too much and has no time to do anything else (and all the time in the world to wander around aimlessly). I apologise now, because I pooh-poohed her insistence that there's gotta be someone out there too and that it's just a matter of time.

Well, imagine that, she's actually right.

There are only two phrases for this situation: "already attached" and "emotionally unavailable".

Imagine that!

Thursday, June 17, 2010

so what?

If you're gonna trip, then you better make sure the fall is worth it. After weeks of tripping, I finally stumbled today. Not too much harm done, considering how I've learnt to be a little bit more careful about tripping.

Silly! Always, always know what you are tripping over!

And then there are people, whom you think are friends, but really, aren't. For example, it was a simple piece of information about the trip. Large, vague question, but as it turns out, either said friend didn't want to help, or just didn't understand why it was important. Would it kill you? Maybe friend just didn't care. Well, so be it. I guess it makes a lot of sense now why I stayed away when said friend had issues.

There's gotta be a point when you've gotta stop talking and start listening.

And so it goes, and so it goes, and so will you soon too, I suppose.